Do you know of someone who is passive aggressive?
Well, my friends do. And she is as passive aggressive as it gets. They don’t
usually know what to do much like how she doesn't know what to do, either.
As
far as I know, she, sometimes, swallows back those tears she so doesn't want to
share or if things get worse, she quickly closes the bathroom door and whimpers
about an imaginary scenario. A scenario where someone she was working with
probably died. She is passive aggressive.
Some
days, it’s really hard for her. Sometimes, it takes days for her to sit down
sedately and not go on a killing rampage. Well, she does go on a killing
rampage but that’s just in her head. It’s all in her head. Oh yes, it takes
days for her to calm herself, to reason out the actions of that person, to
understand the circumstances. Most of the time, she grasps the whole logic
behind that; on most days, she gets really angry at herself. What’s the logic
behind understanding that?
Every
so often, she has the last remnant of a smile plastered across her face by a
joke long forgotten because she was buried under passive aggression. On other
days, she hides under a blanket because she is oh so scared of cureless damage
her speaking her mind out, while being simultaneously angry, would do. Isn't it
always better to curl up into a ball of anger under the blanket and fall asleep
rather than regret things that are said and can never be taken back? Of course
it is.
Do
you know of someone who is passive aggressive? If you do, I will advise you to
let her be. If she is crying, let it pour. There is nothing more relaxing than
letting emotions out. If she is hiding under a blanket, curled up into a ball,
don’t try to disentangle her. If you see her smiling and you know that
she is angry, smile at her to let her know that it’s okay. If you know that she
is passive aggressive, you must let her be.
